Decison Making – Pleasure VS. Pain
As network marketers, we are constantly talking with others about our product or service. Whether we like it or not we are selling, no matter how much attraction marketing is going on in our businesses, at some point and time we must put on a little dog and pony show.
When we are “selling”, we may be doing a belly to belly presentation or a sales page for our website, but we must keep in mind the way most people make decisions. People tend to make decisions based on pleasure and pain, meaning that they tend to want to avoid pain and attain pleasure.
If this is the case, the marketer should keep in mind that they should be SELLING “avoiding the pain” or “attaining the pleasure”. Of the two feelings, pain is much more effective for selling than pleasure. We have all seen the capture pages “Are You Sick and Tired of A, B, and C? … Then Buy my Stuff”
There are many points that can hit a nerve with the prospective buyer, and lack of money is definitely high on the list, but when we think a little deeper, what is the real pain that the lack of money causes?
I believe that most people aren’t feeling pain because of the need for money to buy more stuff, but feel a pain when confronted with long term security issues such as retirement.
Challenge yourself to think a little deeper when using this sales approach to target pain and maybe you will hit the nerve that will enable your prospect to pull the trigger. This will help us, as marketers, promote our product more effectively.
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Hi Brian, great to meet you! The good old pain/pleasure principle. It works for everything in life. You can use it on yourself or on other people to motivate.
I first learned this from Tony Robbins in several of his courses and it works very well.
There is also a pain pleasure matrix which gets even better! I also took Tony Robbins mastering influence course in which he talks about it in much greater detail.
Great post,
Thanks
Gavin Mountford
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You bring up 2 valid points here. Pain and Pleasure, however I believe that people need to really know the WHY they want to do this and than focus on that. The pain will become the pleasure in network marketing.
Bill
PS Just my take on the post!
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I agree with you people are feeling the pain of the long term and their retirement. What is that going to look like to them?
Michael
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Hi Barry,
I think this is a great approach, and one I’d not heard of before reading your post. Like Gavin, I too have heard of the pain vs. pleasure from Tony Robbins, and find that it is something that is quite true and can be very powerful with regard to motivation. I appreciate you sharing
Christine
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Hi Barry! One of the marketing 101 topics! This is a must-know for any marketing newbie, whether they’re on the internet or not!
I love psychological trigger, it tells us a lot about our human nature and our subconsious.
Thanks for sharing!
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Very true principles for sure. I think you really have to master how to preent these to have them work. And I am really tired of those fear tactic landing pages too.. there are so many out there. I think the ones that work better are the ones that present benefits (pleasure) we all rather have a pleasurable life than one with a lot of headaches.. nice post!
Hello Barry, Great post. Your right a lot of it is that way. I find if you can touch there heart in an area they know they need to have or change/improve, then they see the bigger picture they can connect with. There is no great thing than helping someone improve there life. Have a great weekend.
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Asking key questions (and open ended questions) will get them talking – and literally selling themselves into the idea of avoiding pain.
This will bring you great pleasure – to help them avoid impending disaster in some cases!
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